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Dating

Dating / Relationship Statistics

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  • Number of Americans who use online dating services: 40 million

  • Percent of the adult American population that is single: 44%

  • Ratio of single men to single women in America: 86 to 100

  • Percent of New York state adults that are unmarried: 50%

  • Percent of Washington D.C. adults that are unmarried: 70%

  • State with the lowest ratio of single people (Idaho): 40% single

  • Percent of single people surveyed said that flattery is the best way to attract someone: 51%

  • Percent of single people that say touching as a way to flirt and is very effective: 25%

  • Percent of single people that say the best way to let someone know you’re interested in them is by passing word through a friend: 23%

  • Average amount of time to make a first impression on a man: 15 minutes

  • Average amount of time to make a first impression on a woman: 1 hour

  • The number one relationship argument: Money

  • Percent of breakups in online relationships that happen by email: 48%

  • Percent of women who find relationships at a bar: 9%

  • Percent of men who find relationships at a bar: 2%

  • Percent of married couples who said they found their mates through a friend: 63%

  • Percent chance after a first date a guy will call if he hasn’t called within 24 hours: 12%

  • The chance that some will like a date set up by a friend: 17%

  • Percent of women who find money to be very important in a relationship: 88%

  • Percent of singles that feel they are too busy to meet other singles: 52%

  • Percent of women that date men that are at least 5 years older than them: 76%

  • Percent of men that date women that are at least 5 years younger than them: 80%

  • Percent of singles that find a great smile the most attractive feature: 53%

  • Percent of singles that have Googled someone on the internet before a first date: 43%

  • 27% of women between 25 and 34 expect men to pay for the first date, according to the first date statistics.

  • 51% of adults in a serious relationship claimed they waited a couple of weeks before having sex.

  • Only 66% of individuals on dating sites schedule a date in real life.

  • Dating trends suggest that people who meet online and get married are less likely to break up within the first year.

  • 95% of women prefer a man who is open to their emotions.

  • Almost 1.5 million American teens in high school experience abuse from a partner every year.

  • Dating facts show that 57% of men admit to having cheated on their significant other.

  • 22% of people ask their friends to create and customize their online dating profiles.

  • 55% of date rapes happened in the victim’s home, according to the date rape statistics.

  • 83% of women are attracted to men who can cook.

  • Dating facts show that 57% of men admit to having cheated on their significant other.

  •  28.48% of men find attractiveness the most important factor at speed dating.

  • 40% of couples were friends before dating, according to statistics.

  • Only 66% of individuals on dating sites schedule a date in real life.

  • Dating trends suggest that people who meet online and get married are less likely to break up within the first year.

  • 17% of American married couples are interracial.

  • According to race and dating statistics, 18% of Hispanic women are married to non-Hispanic men.

Online Dating

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  • In 2017, the worldwide online dating revenue reached $779 million. Experts expected the industry to reach a revenue of $973 in 2020 with a growth rate of 24.9%. Using 2017 as the baseline, the industry’s revenue is poised to reach $1.02 billion in 2021. (Statista, 2019)

  • Come early 2020, another report showed that the online dating industry generated a revenue of $2.23 billion the previous year, which positively broke many expectations. Now, experts project that the industry will reach $3.592 billion in revenue by the end of 2025. This is at a CAGR of 8.26%. (Valuates Reports, 2020)

  • In 2019, there were about 219.7 million online dating sites or app users around the world. The number is expected to reach 234.1 million in 2021 and reach 276.9 million in 2024. (Statista, 2020)

  • In the US, there were more or less 30.4 million online dating service users. This number is expected to reach 35 million come 2024 (Statista, 2020)

Very common dangers on online dating sites

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  • 71% – people lying to make themselves more attractive. (Anderson et al., 2020)

  • 50% – people setting up fake accounts to scam others. (Anderson et al., 2020)

  • 48% – receiving unsolicited sexually explicit images or messages (Anderson et al., 2020)

  • 25% – people getting harassed or bullied. (Anderson et al., 2020)

  • 18% – privacy violations like identity theft and data breaches. (Anderson et al., 2020)

  • Millennials Swipe for 10 Hours a Week on Average

  • LGB Singles are More Likely to Meet a Partner *Online

  • Over 70% of App Users Have Successful First *Dates

  • The Average Age for an Online Dater is 33

  • Women in Oceania Report the Highest Rates of *Online Dating

  • A Solid 28% of Online Daters Make Over $75K a Year

  • The First Sunday in January is the Year’s Busiest Swiping Day

  • The Most Successful Online Dating Messages are *Between 40 and 90 Characters

  • Profiles That Mention Sports or Music Attract More Fans

  • Singles Like Dating Profiles With 4+ Photos

  • Singles Like Dating Profiles With 4+ Photos

  • Over 70% of Online Daters Say Lying on Profiles is Very Common

  • About 1 in 10 Singles Quit Online Dating After Three Months

  • Half of Gen Z Singles Have Gone on a Video Date

  • About 45% of Straight Women Prefer to Be Pursued

  • Seattle, Denver & New York City are Online Dating Hot Spots

  • Online Dating Revenue in the U.S. May Reach $4.2B by 2024

  • Americans are Now More Open to Interracial Dating

  • Couples Who Meet Online Report Greater Relationship Happiness

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